That psychological growth and maturation throughout the lifespan involve pr
ogressive linear processes is an implicit assumption of all models of devel
opment. Within psychoanalysis, a particular focus has been those processes
that hinder forward development and manifest themselves as regressions or f
ixations or in character structure. However; the implicit assumption of pro
gressive, linear development leaves unexplored the central question of what
are the processes that govern developmental progressions. What makes psych
ological development happen in more or less predictable ways and yet allows
for considerable individual variability? And are those developmental progr
essions inevitably forwardly progressive? Questions regarding what regulate
s and integrates development are relevant not only for understanding the no
rmal building up of the internal world and of childhood psychopathology but
also for those times of dramatic mental reorganization in adulthood surrou
nding events such as pregnancy and aging and for issues of psychological ch
ange during and after an analysis. Clinical material from analyses with a c
hild and an adult and from interviews with four- to five-year-old children
is used to explore individual fantasies of how development and change happe
ns. The central rob of internalization and object relations in regulating p
sychological development is emphasized.