In this paper we define an a posteriori error estimator for finite element
approximations of 3-d elliptic problems. We prove that the estimator is equ
ivalent, up to logarithmic factors of the meshsize, to the maximum norm of
the error. The results are valid for an arbitrary polyhedral domain and rat
her general meshes. We also obtain analogous results for the nonconforming
method of Crouzeix-Raviart. Finally, we present some numerical results comp
aring adaptive procedures based on controlling the error in different norms
.