Virtually all American couples, married or cohabiting, expect sexual exclus
ivity of one another. This article asks why some people are sexually exclus
ive while others have sex with someone besides their mate. Previous researc
h has linked personal values, sexual opportunities, and quality of the mari
tal relationship to extramartial sex. This paper integrates these findings
in a multivariate model that incorporates factors informing sexual decision
making as well as demographic "risk factors. " Nationally representative s
urvey data show higher likelihood of sexual infidelity among those with str
onger sexual interests, more permissive sexual values, lower subjective sat
isfaction with their union, weaker network ties to partner, and greater sex
ual opportunities. With these factors controlled, gender differences are su
bstantially reduced or eliminated, although racial effects persist.