In this paper the organising concept of the 'alert assistant' is developed
to identify and explore the skilled and often invisible work which mothers
of teenage boys with a chronic illness carried out on behalf of their sons.
The term 'alert assistant' implies that the needs of the person being assi
sted are identified, or preferably anticipated and subsequently met, by the
assistant. Two inter-relating factors influenced how mothers constructed t
he need of their sons for an alert assistant; mothers' perceptions of the s
elf-care abilities of their sons, and the gendered ways in which boys lived
with chronic illness. Dilemmas for the alert assistant. including being bl
amed for mollycoddling, are discussed. It is suggested that the incisive co
ncept of the alert assistant not only has the potential to increase underst
andings of the gendered management and experience of illness, but that it c
ould also be useful in other diverse settings.