In this paper, I explore "the art of mourning" in the course of discussing
two Borges prose poems, "Pierre Menard, Author of the Quixote" (1941) and "
Borges and I" (1957), both of which were written soon after Borges suffered
enormous emotional losses. I suggest that successful mourning centrally in
volves a demand that we make on ourselves to create something--whether it b
e a memory, a dream, a story, a poem, a response to a poem--that begins to
meet, to be equal to, the full complexity of our relationship to what has b
een lost and to the experience of loss itself. Paradoxically, in this proce
ss, we are enlivened by the experience of loss and death, even when what is
given up or is taken from us is an aspect of ourselves.