This study explored some of the antecedents and consequences of young adult
s' beliefs about safe-sex communication in their early couple relationships
. The sample consisted of 237 unmarried, heterosexual Australian university
students, 16 to 19 years of age, approximately evenly divided between virg
ins and those with sexual experience. Drawing on a model of couple sexual c
ommunication as the product of prior experiences with communication, assert
ion, and conflict resolution in the family of origin, we examined links bet
ween these variables and respondents' attitudes and practices of safe-sex d
iscussion and condom use with their dating partners. The results showed tha
t women and nonvirgin men had more positive attitudes toward safe-sex commu
nication than male virgins had. Difficulties with self-assertion outside of
the sexual context and mothers' and fathers' use of avoidance as a conflic
t resolution strategy were negatively correlated with willingness to discus
s safe sex, whereas mothers' more frequent safe-sex education was a positiv
e predictor. The results of a hierarchical multiple regression analysis ind
icated that assertion, paternal conflict avoidance, and male gender were in
dependent predictors of reluctance to negotiate for safer sex. At a behavio
ral level, positive attitudes to safe-sex discussion predicted having talke
d about AIDS and condoms with a dating partner as well as actual condom use
by the subsample of daters who had experienced sexual intercourse. Implica
tions for improving family and couple communication and for sex education w
ere considered.