Drawing on in-depth interviews with the relatives of convicted murderers, t
his article interrogates the concept of stigma through an everyday notion o
f familial toxicity and commonsense understandings of murder. Identifying m
oments of stigmatizing strain,the article examines moments of opportunity f
or managing stigma through three meta-tactics: management of space, informa
tion, and self-presentation. However; due to the problems in carrying out s
ensitive research with a hidden population, there are limits to how far arg
uments made can be generalized. Therefore, the article concludes by raising
questions for future research.