Current theories of marriage under-predict the extent of non-marriage,, hav
e not been adequately tested, or do not apply well to women with low-socioe
conomic status. Furthermore, scholarly research on marriage attitudes among
low-SES women suffers from a lack of up-to-date qualitative work This stud
y draws on qualitative interviews with 292 low-income single mothers in thr
ee U.S. cities. Inductive analysis reveals five primary motivations for non
-marriage among low-income single mothers. Most mothers agree potential mar
riage partners must earn significantly more than the minimum wage, but also
emphasize the importance of stability of employment, source of earnings, a
nd the effort men expend to find and keep their jobs. Mothers place equal o
r greater emphasis an non-monetary factors such as how marriage may diminis
h or enhance respectability, how it may limit their control over household
decisions, their mistrust of men, and their fear of domestic violence. Affo
rdability, respectability, and control have greater salience for African Am
erican mothers. while trust and domestic violence have greater salience for
whites. The author discusses these findings in relation to existing theori
es of marriage and in light welfare reform.