This article compares Enright's cognitive-developmental model of forgivenes
s (Enright et al., 1989, 1991, 1992, 1994) with a model of forgiveness base
d on communication between the wronged and the wrongdoer. While unilateral
forgiveness is unconditional and is a process which happens wholly within t
he person who has suffered an injustice, negotiated forgiveness requires of
the wrongdoer (1) confession; (2) ownership; and (3) repentance for their
actions. Unilateral forgiveness is built upon the principle of identity; in
contrast, negotiated forgiveness begins with, and extends Piaget's princip
le of ideal reciprocity. Enright's highest stage of forgiveness reasoning i
s one in which considerations of social context are transcended; in the mod
el of negotiated forgiveness, such understanding of context is central. Whe
reas unilateral forgiveness is a wholly intraindividual phenomenon, negotia
ted forgiveness is quintessentially, social and dynamic. Using the example
of truth and reconciliation commissions, the article examines the implicati
ons for the relationship between justice and forgiveness, according to each
model.