Bragg diffraction of atoms by light waves can create high momentum componen
ts in a Bose-Einstein condensate. Collisions between atoms from two distinc
t momentum wave packets cause elastic scattering that can remove a signific
ant fraction of atoms from the wave packets and cause the formation of a sp
herical shell of scattered atoms. We develop a slowly varying envelope tech
nique that includes the effects of this loss on the condensate dynamics des
cribed by the Cross-Pitaevski equation. Three-dimensional numerical calcula
tions are presented for two experimental situations: passage of a moving da
ughter condensate through a nonmoving parent condensate, and four-wave mixi
ng of matter waves.