Kl. Fingerman, "We had a nice little chat": Age and generational differences in mothers' and daughters' descriptions of enjoyable visits, J GERONT B, 55(2), 2000, pp. P95-P106
Citations number
78
Categorie Soggetti
Public Health & Health Care Science","Medical Research General Topics
Journal title
JOURNALS OF GERONTOLOGY SERIES B-PSYCHOLOGICAL SCIENCES AND SOCIAL SCIENCES
Mother-daughter relationships are generally characterized by frequent conta
ct and high levels of regard. Yet little is known about what mothers and da
ughters find enjoyable about their contact. Forty-eight pairs of older moth
ers (M = 76 years) and their middle-aged daughters (M = 46 years) and 44 pa
irs of middle-aged mothers (M = 47 years) and their young adult daughters (
M = 21 years) (N = 182) described recent enjoyable visits. Younger mothers
and daughters emphasized the daughters' entry into adulthood and the streng
th of their ties as agreeable, whereas older mothers and daughters focused
on the larger kin network in describing their enjoyable visits. Some older
mothers and daughters also made negative comments, suggesting greater indiv
iduation and less idealization of the relationship. Mothers in both age gro
ups appeared to be more invested in the relationships than were their daugh
ters. Implications for the strength of the mother-daughter tie are discusse
d.