Taking a parental perspective, this paper explores the experience of partne
rship between parents of disabled children with learning difficulties and e
ducational professionals. It is argued that until policy, legislation and p
ractice moves of om its present perspective of viewing disability as the fa
ilure of the individual to that of a perspective embracing equality of valu
e for all, relationships between parents and professionals will be fraught
with difficulties. Furthermore, it is argued that until disabled children a
re centrally and positively placed within the relationship between parents
and professionals, the existing prejudice and oppression experienced by dis
abled children will dominate the relationship.