This article explored the idea of a relational unconscious, which presumes
three interconnected ideas about human interaction. First, meaning and unde
rstanding are coconstructed and intersubjective and not universal, absolute
, and preformed. Second, there is a fluid boundary between conscious and un
conscious experience that is intersubjectively mediated. Third, language is
basic to human experience, whether or not a particular experience can be v
erbally expressed. This view of unconscious experience suggests that a ther
apist's participation is a major determining influence on the generation aw
areness, and expression of a patient's unconscious experience. In applying
a relational view of unconscious processes, self-disclosure is used to cons
ider the usefulness of therapeutic interventions, to think critically about
the nature of human interaction, and to specify how the therapeutic relati
onship promotes healing and growth.