Clinical and literary materials are presented to illustrate the compulsive
need some children (frequently abused and/or deprived ones) continue to fee
l as they grow up for submission to and identification with the earliest pa
rental figure. Intrapsychic loss is threatened by intense murderous hatred
fet toward a parent without whom the child's survival is not possible. Conf
licts over sadomasochistic fantasy, feeling, and action are used to hold on
to the parent within and without the mind, and these can. dominate the chi
ld's life.