The contribution made by informal carers to the provision of care in the co
mmunity in the UK is formally acknowledged in the 1995 Carers (Recognition
and Services) Act. This legislation has focused attention, once again, on t
he relationship between formal services and those providing informal cafe.
The Act has re-created a lack of clarity about the position carers hold in
the carer dyad. Findings are presented here from an exploratory study about
the experience of dementia. This seeks to examine the realities of caring
for a relative with dementia in the context of three particular aspects of
the caring activities which relate to role ambiguity: the needs of carers,
their relationship with formal services and their position as being experie
nced and skilled in the care of their relatives.