Drawing on Higgins, Klein, and Strauman's (1985) self-discrepancy theo
ry of anxiety and depression, we investigated the relation between vio
lence in childhood and later discrepancies in young adults between the
ir perceptions of their actual self and the self they felt they ought
to be or would ideally like to be. Reports of early violence were sign
ificantly associated with actual-ought self-discrepancies, and also wi
th perceived parental actual-ought discrepancies, but not with actual-
ideal discrepancies. The data were consistent with two main possibilit
ies: first, that violence creates parental discrepancies that subseque
ntly lead to self-discrepancies in their children and, second, that pa
rental perceptions that their children are not as they ought to be len
d independently both to greater violence and to the creation of self-d
iscrepancies in their offspring.