We present a model in which members of a mated pair decide whether to care
for their offspring or desert them. There is a breeding season of finite le
ngth during which it is possible to produce and raise several batches of of
fspring. On deserting its offspring, an individual can search for a new mat
e. The probability of finding a mate depends on the number of individuals o
f each sex that are searching, which in turn depends upon the previous care
and desertion decisions of all population members. We find the evolutionar
ily stable pattern of care over the breeding season. The feedback between b
ehaviour and mating opportunity can result in a pattern of stable oscillati
ons between different forms of care over the breeding season. Oscillations
can also arise because the best thing for an individual to do at a particul
ar time in the season depends on future behaviour of all population members
. In the baseline model, a pair splits up after a breeding attempt, even if
they both care for the offspring. In a version of the model in which a pai
r stays together if they both care, the feedback between behaviour and mati
ng opportunity can lead to more than one evolutionarily stable form of care
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