This essay is excerpted from a larger project the author conducted wit
h adolescent and preadolescent children of divorce. It tells the perso
nal story of the author's first interview experience with her first pa
rticipant in this project, here called Lucy. At the time of the interv
iew, she was 11 years old and her parents had been divorced for 3 year
s. In the effort to engage the reader as an outside interpreter of her
story, this essay invites the reader in, to the ''raw data'' of Lucy'
s experiences, as described in her words. Presented here in dialogue a
re the two voices of participant and researcher, as well as researcher
reflections and recollections of this memorable experience.