This article presents a series of working observations on the context and d
ynamics of intimate aggression perpetrated against women. These reflections
flow from our research, and are woven together with the work of scholars f
rom diverse fields, from feminism to marital communication to social constr
uctivism. Our reflections emphasize that intimate aggression is sustained n
ot only by powerful dynamics of dominance and control, but also by the very
ways in which we view, experience, and talk about relationships and aggres
sion.