Perceived superiority in close relationships: Why it exists and persists

Two studies used a thought-listing technique to examine perceived superiori ty, or the inclination to regard one's own relationship as better than (and not as bad as) others; relationships. Consistent with the claim that this is a motivated phenomenon-and motivated in part by strong commitment-Study 1 revealed that (a) tendencies toward perceived superiority and (b) the com mitment-superiority link are both strongest given psychologically threateni ng instructions and weakest given accuracy instructions (control instructio ns are intermediate). Consistent with the claim that this phenomenon serves a functional purpose, Study 2 revealed that earlier perceived superiority predicts later relationship status (persisted vs, ended) and increases over time in dyadic adjustment. Also, commitment accounts for unique variance i n perceived superiority beyond self-esteem.