Understanding mechanisms for energy dissipation from nanoparticles in conta
ct with large samples is a central problem in describing friction microscop
ically. Calculation of the reduced density matrix appears to be the most su
itable method to study such systems that are coupled to a large environment
. In this paper, the time evolution of the reduced density matrix has been
evaluated for an arbitrary system coupled to a heat reservoir. The formalis
m is then applied to study the vibrational relaxation following the stick-s
lip motion of an asperity on a surface. The frequency and temperature depen
dence of the relaxation time is also determined. Predictions of the reduced
density matrix are compared with those obtained by using the Golden Rule a
pproach.