This article criticizes current psychological work on 'heterosexism', highl
ighting the way its operationalization tends to obscure flexible discursive
practices and settle them into stable, causal attitudes within individuals
. It studies extracts from a variety of sources where sexuality is made rel
evant (in describing someone as a 'poof' or a 'dyke', for example), and con
siders (a) how interactants attend to 'heterosexism' in their talk and (b)
what such 'attending to' is doing interactionally. The analysis highlights
four of the resources speakers use to manage such talk: (i) discounting het
erosexism; (ii) displaying a lack of understanding; (iii) softening the blo
w; and (iv) conceding positive features. It is argued that heterosexist utt
erances do not have their negativity built into them, but become prejudicia
l, troublesome or otherwise for participants in situ, as their sense is pro
duced and negotiated. The article concludes with a discussion of the wider
implications of this type of research for psychological approaches to (what
are typically conceived as) 'ideological' or 'cognitive' phenomena.