Research with clinically depressed and maritally discordant couples suggest
s that women's distressed behaviors function to suppress their partners' su
bsequent aggressive responses. We applied this coercion hypothesis to a non
clinical sample of dating couples (N = 288). We further examined whether th
ese effects were gender-specific, and whether distressed and aggressive beh
aviors differ within physically violent versus nonviolent relationships. Wo
men but not men reported engaging in elevated rates of distress in response
to partner aggression during past dating conflicts. However, both women an
d men expected distressed behavior to suppress partner aggression during fu
ture conflicts. Expectations about the functional effects of distressed beh
avior did not differ for participants with physically violent partners vers
us nonviolent partners. However, participants in violent relationships repo
rted enacting more distressed behaviors and had greater expectations for pa
rtner verbal aggression during future conflicts than did participants in no
nviolent relationships. Future research may identify the early onset of dys
functional interaction patterns in couples and concomitant psychological di
stress.