F. Rothbaum et al., The development of close relationships in Japan and the United States: Paths of symbiotic harmony and generative tension, CHILD DEV, 71(5), 2000, pp. 1121-1142
Findings from research on parent-child and adult mate relationships suggest
that there are different paths of development in Japan and the United Stat
es. In Japan, the path is one of symbiotic harmony, as seen in the emphasis
on union in infancy, others' expectations in childhood, the stability of r
elationships with parents and peers in adolescence, and assurance about the
mate relationship in adulthood. In the United States, the path is one of g
enerative tension, as seen in the tug between separation and reunion in inf
ancy, the emphasis on personal preferences in childhood, the transfer of cl
oseness from parents to peers in adolescence, and the emphasis on trust-a f
aith and hope in new relationships-in adulthood. The notion that there are
different paths of development challenges Western investigators' presumptio
n that certain processes-separation-individuation, use of the relational pa
rtner as a secure base for exploration, and conflict between partners-are c
entral in all relationships. The notion of different paths also challenges
the assumption of many cross-cultural investigators that relationships in t
he United States are less valued or weaker than those in Japan; this articl
e highlights cultural differences in the meaning and dynamics, as opposed t
o the importance and strength, of relationships. The model suggests a need
to investigate the processes underlying, and the adaptive consequences of,
these two alternative paths.