It is the thesis of the authors that the caring ethic and moral state of be
ing of nurses ideally suffuses their professional caring and is thus implic
it in their ethical decision making. Socratic dialogue is a technique that
allows such moral attitudes to be made explicit. This article describes a S
ocratic dialogue conducted with nurses on the topic: 'What is love in nursi
ng?' The conclusions drawn were based on the belief that the current wester
n-style health care system restricts the practice of nursing in such a way
as to limit professional caring and loving possibilities. Nurses who love i
n the practice of caring go beyond the role definition of the duty of care;
they are people who are prepared to think differently about their practice
as professionals, and are identified as competent risk takers committed to
the betterment of the other. From this dialogue, 'love in nursing' was und
erstood as the willingness and commitment of the nurse to want the good of
the other before the self, without reciprocity.