This study explores the grandmother role as experienced by a nonrandom samp
le of nine lesbian women. It examines how they define the grandmother role,
and the behaviors and actions through which they enact the role. During in
dividual interviews each woman was asked to talk about what makes a woman a
good grandmother, memories of her own grandmothers, and the relationship s
he has with one or more of her grandchildren. The effect of her sexual orie
ntation on the relationship was not explored. These women define the grandm
other role as providing emotional support to their grandchildren, providing
varied experiences for their grandchildren, and providing support for the
parents of their grandchildren.