The quasi-stationary method for black hole binary inspiral is an approximat
ion for studying strong-field effects while suppressing radiation reaction.
In this paper we use a nonlinear scalar field toy model to: (a) explain th
e underlying method of approximating binary motion by periodic orbits with
radiation; (b) show how the fields in such a model are found by the solutio
n of a boundary value problem; (c) demonstrate how a good approximation to
the outgoing radiation can be found by finding fields with a balance of ing
oing and outgoing radiation (a generalization of standing waves).