This paper discusses how Asian deaf young people and their families engage
with welfare provision. Our findings, based on group and individual intervi
ews with young deaf people and individual interviews with their parents, ex
plore the assumptions underlying current provision and how they influence t
he options available to young people and their families. The paper suggests
that the welfare state exerts a form of social control where professional
help, although well intended, may disempowers Asian deaf people by privileg
ing 'oralism' over sign language, and western norms over other cultural val
ues. On the other hand, positive constructions of deafness privilege Deaf i
dentity while failing to accommodate ethnic or religious diversity, resulti
ng in Asian deaf young people and their families having an ambivalent relat
ionship with the Deaf community. We argue that services need to recognise a
nd address the reasons for this ambivalence if they are to adequately engag
e Asian deaf people and their families.