This article examines assumptions behind ''gay community, contrasting
them with the experiences or homosexually active men on the commercial
gay scene. in-depth interviews with mainly young men in Melbourne, Au
stralia revealed that while the informants considered ''the scene'' to
be a central part of the gay community, they were critical of the sce
ne with respect to attributes of ''community'' Anticipated components
of community including unity, support, friendliness, and acceptance we
re not features of the informants' accounts. Conversely, the data reve
aled fragmented social networks involving various social groups, categ
ories of people, and an ''in/out'' culture. The article also identifie
s a range of social dynamics associated with the scene, including comm
ercial pressures, sexualization, and gender negotiations. Network char
acteristics and dynamics tend to work against the establishment of clo
se and supportive friendships. Social influences on the adoption of ''
safe sex'' are also discussed.