We determine a crucial feature of the dark halo density distribution from t
he fact that the luminous matter dominates the gravitational potential at a
bout one disc scalelength R-d, but at the optical edge R(opt)similar or equ
al to 3R(d) the dark matter has already become the main component of the ga
laxy density. From the kinematics of 137 spirals we find that the dark matt
er halo density profiles are self-similar at least out to R-opt and show co
re radii much larger than the corresponding disc scalelengths. The luminous
regions of spirals consist of stellar discs embedded in dark haloes with r
oughly constant density. This invariant dark matter profile is very difficu
lt to reconcile with the fundamental properties of the density distribution
of cold dark matter haloes. With respect to previous work, the present evi
dence is obtained by means of a robust method and for a large and complete
sample of normal spirals.