We describe a reaction mechanism which is consistent with all available exp
erimental information of high energy three-body breakup processes. The domi
nating channels are removal of one of the three halo particles leaving the
other two either undisturbed or absorbed. We compare with the commonly used
deceptive assumption of a decay through two-body resonance states. Our pre
dictions can be tested by measuring neutron-neutron invariant mass spectra.