In this Letter we investigate the response of an embedded system that is su
bject to an external drive, which is chosen to be either a constant velocit
y or a harmonic shear. Two approaches are introduced that cover macroscopic
and microscopic aspects of the problem and mimic recent measurements on fr
iction using the surface forces apparatus. The first approach is based on t
he Tomlinson model and its generalization, and allows for the investigation
of the coupled lateral-normal response to a lateral drive. We propose a me
thod for analyzing both linens and nonlinear response of confined systems d
riven harmonically. The method provides a way to deduce the microscopic par
ameters responsible for dissipation. The second approach focuses on the mic
roscopic level. The shear is shown to excite "shearons", which are collecti
ve modes of the embedded system with well-defined spatial and temporal patt
erns that dominate the frictional properties of the driven system. We demon
strate that the slip relaxation in stick-slip motion and memory effects are
well described in terms of the creation and/or annihilation of shearons.