Js. Tucker et Js. Mueller, Spouses' social control of health behaviors: Use and effectiveness of specific strategies, PERS SOC PS, 26(9), 2000, pp. 1120-1130
Forty-four couples described the strategics they used in attempting to prom
pt their partner to engage in particular health behaviors, strategies wed b
y their partner that were effective and ineffective in prompting their own
engagement in health behaviors, and their own Psychological reactions to th
e partner's we of social control. Strategies that were more frequently ment
ioned as effective rather than ineffective included the partner also engagi
ng in the desired health behavior; modeling the health behavior discussing
health issues, and providing emotional support. Spouses reported feeling lo
wer self-esteem, less positive affect, and more negative affect in response
to their partner's we of ineffective rather than effective strategies. In
addition, both spouses rated their partners' use of ineffective (compared t
o effective) strategies as less motivated by a concert for the participant'
s welfare and more motivated by their partner's own desire to exert control
within the relationship.