Sexuality and attachment: A passionate relationship or a marriage of convenience?

The ubiquitous and persistent bodily urges of sexuality and their vicissitu des are explored ill this paper; focusing on the complex relationship betwe en libidinal desire and the attachment system, especially the latter's affe ct-regulating function. This complicated interrelationship is highlighted w ith clinical vignettes. Implications for transference and countertransferen ce are explored In the discussion of affect regulation and its possible sex ual entwining. Clinical data is presented to highlight the plasticity of se xuality. Sexuality's protean nature allows for a reassessment of the case o f Little Hans, with emphasis on the unique interconnections between sexuali ty and the vital need for an attachment relationship. Stressing such into c onnections raises important questions about the traditional concept of psyc hosexual stages.