Western scholarly literature suggests that (1) weaning is initiated by moth
ers; (2) weaning takes place within a few days once mothers decide to stop
nursing (3) mothers employ specific techniques to terminate nursing (4) sem
i-solid foods (gruels and mashed foods) are essential when weaning; (5) wea
ning is traumatic for children (it leads to temper tantrums, aggression, et
c.); (6) developmental stages in relationships with mothers and others can
be demarcated by weaning; and (7) weaning is a process that involves mother
s and children exclusively, with weaned children moving from close relation
ships with their mothers to strengthened relationships with other children.
In many respects, these presumptions are consistent with contemporary Euro
american practices: nursing stops early (usually before six months) relativ
e to other cultures and takes place over a few days or weeks with the help
of bottles and baby foods. Because bottles are available, weaning seldom ap
pears traumatic, but it is seen as an important step in the establishment o
f independence between mothers and infants. By contrast, weaning from the b
ottle is often perceived as traumatic. Despite considerable academic and po
pular interest, weaning has seldom been studied systematically, especially
in small-scale cultures. Qualitative and quantitative data from a study of
Bofi foragers in Central Africa are used here to evaluate the cross-cultura
l applicability of the assumptions summarized above.