Measuring individual variation in mating behaviour is an integral part of s
tudies of sexual selection and of considerable theoretical importance. Few
studies, however, have examined individual variation in mating behaviour in
a sexual conflict system and considered how individual variation influence
s the strength and consistency of the resulting sexual selection. We examin
ed variation in mating behaviour of male and female pairs in the seaweed fl
y, Coelopa frigida. Sexual selection in seaweed flies occurs as a result of
a sexual conflict over mating, with larger males generally able to overcom
e female rejection responses. We explored male and female mating conflicts
and examined the variation in conflict outcomes within and between pairs. F
irst, female willingness to mate was unaffected by short-term mating experi
ence, allowing us to examine repeated interactions between a male and a fem
ale. Second, the outcomes of the sexual conflict over mating (copulation or
rejection), and components of the mating interaction (number of copulation
s and time the male is mounted), were strongly repeatable. Third, the patte
rns of sexual selection on male size were consistent across mounts. Individ
ual pairs consistently gave the same outcome to the mating conflict and yie
lded consistent sexual selection. Sexual conflict systems can thus be studi
ed in the same way as those with more traditional forms of sexual selection
and yield important insights into the links between variation in mating be
haviour and sexual success. (C) 2001 The Association for tile Study of Anim
al Behaviour.