The reported study aimed to explore parents' perceptions of treatment withd
rawal/withholding; their experience and their opinions. In-depth face-to-fa
ce interviews at 3 and 13 months after the baby's death were conducted with
108 parents of 62 babies from the East of Scotland. Of the parents, 56% (6
0/180) believed they had decided to stop treatment. A further 4/59 sets of
parents subsequently wished they had taken responsibility. Only one parent
who did decide felt guilt 3 months after the event. Parents identified two
essential factors which minimise doubt: full and honest information and con
crete evidence of a poor prognosis.
Conclusion The majority of parents wish to be active in decision making on
behalf of their baby. Doing so does not appear to have adverse consequences
. The pacing of events in the process of deciding and managing the dying is
critical. Dissatisfaction is reduced if parents are given time and evidenc
e to help them assimilate the reality at each stage.