Many theory of mind researchers have argued that even preschoolers understa
nd the causal relationship between desires and emotions: the fulfilment of
a desire results in a positive emotion, whereas its frustration elicits a n
egative emotion. Children can acknowledge this simple link between desires
and emotions, even when their own desire differs from that of the story pro
tagonist. However, in this paper we argue that under some conditions presch
ool children will not base their emotion predictions for another person on
the basis of the other person's desires. In the first experiment, 3- to 5-y
ear-old children were tested for their understanding of desires, when the p
rotagonist's desire for a snack increasingly conflicted with their own pref
erence for a snack. Only the 4-year-olds performed as expected: they gave m
ore accurate emotion predictions when the distance between their own prefer
ence and the protagonist's desire was reduced. When the snacks were replace
d by toys, however, preschool children showed a bias in their emotion predi
ctions that seemed gender related. The second experiment confirmed that sex
-stereotyped beliefs about desirability biased children's predictions of ot
hers' emotions: 4- and 5-year-old children were more accurate in their pred
ictions when the protagonist had a traditional desire (a girl wanting to pl
ay with a doll), than when the protagonist had a non-traditional desire (a
boy wanting to play with a doll), irrespective of children's own preference
s for one toy over the other. In sum, evidence was found for two biasing in
fluences in children's understanding of others' emotions: (1) an increased
distance between the protagonist's desire and participants' own desires, an
d (2) beliefs about desirability based on, for example, cultural-norms for
gender related preferences, which increases with age.