Posh's great contribution to cybernetics is to take seriously the notion of
interaction in the circular processes that lie at the heart of the subject
. From his earliest days he worked with interactive systems. His master wor
k, conversation theory, epitomises the interactive system, which he then ex
tended and generalised into the interaction of actors theory. hi this paper
, the requirements that conversation places on our understanding of partici
pants is presented in the form of a specification. In particular, the ways
of behaving and the assumptions under which we have to behave if we are to
be able to converse with success are expounded. These are in great contrast
to neo-Darwinian assumptions. The difference between communication by code
and communication by conversation is explored, and the primacy of conversa
tional communication is argued. Finally, it is claimed that the ways of beh
aving and the assumptions that are the requirements for a conversation to t
ake place are presented as personal qualities that were particularly appare
nt in Pask himself.