Self-control and accommodation in close relationships: An interdependence analysis

Accommodation refers to the willingness, when a partner has engaged in a po tentially destructive behavior, to (a) inhibit impulses toward destructive responding and (b) instead respond constructively. A pilot study and 3 addi tional studies examined the hypothesis that self-control promotes individua ls' ability to accommodate in response to a romantic partner's potentially destructive behavior. Dispositional self-control was positively associated with accommodative tendencies in all 4 investigations, In addition, Study 1 (a retrospective study) and Study 2 (a laboratory experiment) revealed tha t "in-the-moment" self-regulatory strength depletion decreased the likeliho od that an individual would accommodate. Finally, Study 3 demonstrated that self-control exerted a significant effect on accommodation even after the authors included commitment to the relationship in the model. Implications for relationship functioning are discussed.