The rifting of continents involves faulting (tectonism) and magmatism, whic
h reflect the strain-rate and temperature dependent processes of solid-stat
e deformation and decompression melting within the Earth(1,2). Most models
of this rifting have treated tectonism and magmatism separately, and few nu
merical simulations have attempted to include continental break-up and melt
ing, let alone describe how continental rifting evolves into seafloor sprea
ding. Models of this evolution conventionally juxtapose continental and oce
anic crust. Here we present observations that support the existence of a zo
ne of exhumed continental mantle, several tens of kilometres wide, between
oceanic and continental crust on continental margins where magma-poor rifti
ng has taken place. We present geophysical and geological observations from
the west Iberia margin(3-7), and geological mapping of margins of the form
er Tethys ocean now exposed in the Alps(8-13). We use these complementary f
indings to propose a conceptual model that focuses on the final stage of co
ntinental extension and break-up, and the creation of a zone of exhumed con
tinental mantle that evolves oceanward into seafloor spreading. We conclude
that the evolving stress and thermal fields are constrained by a rising an
d narrowing ridge of asthenospheric mantle, and that magmatism and rates of
extension systematically increase oceanward.