D. Elise, PRIMARY FEMININITY, BISEXUALITY, AND THE FEMALE EGO IDEAL - A REEXAMINATION OF FEMALE DEVELOPMENTAL THEORY, The Psychoanalytic quarterly, 66(3), 1997, pp. 489-517
While the concept of primary femininity advances our understanding of
the girl's developmental experience, a number of contradictions and pr
oblematic assumptions are at the present time contained within this co
ncept. I propose that we use the phrase ''primary, sense of femalness'
' to refer to the girl's earliest sense of self deriving from the ment
al representation of her body. In addition, I argue that the concepts
of a primary sense of femaleness and of a bisexual matrix are not mutu
ally exclusive; an early sense of self located in a female body can co
-exist with the fantasy of potential unlimited by gender Finally, I ex
amine the role of the mother as ego ideal for the girl.