A qualitative study was done to investigate how adult children become careg
ivers to older parents with functional impairments and what roles their own
children adopt in their family's care arrangements. In-depth interviews wi
th 43 members of 15 families revealed 5 influences on children and grandchi
ldren's adoption of caregiver roles: expectations, family rules, religious
training, role modeling and role making. Further analysis of families with
grandchild participants showed considerable variation both between and with
in families in how and what kinds of eldercare roles were adopted. These re
sults can be used by family life educators interested in creating parent-ca
re education programs.