Extrapair paternity has been the focus of numerous studies of socially mono
gamous birds, but the dynamics of extrapair male-female interactions have b
een explored in relatively few. In western bluebirds (Sialia mexicana), a s
pecies with 20% extrapair paternity, two to four observers monitored extrap
air copulations (EPCs) occurring on the female's home territory while her s
ocial mate was detained in a cage near the nest. Detention elevated the fre
quency and visibility of EPCs, so we could score receptivity of females to
identifiable extrapair males without the interference of intermale aggressi
on. Most intruding extrapair males were neighboring breeders visiting outsi
de their own mate's fertile period. Local male relatives of the detained ma
le attempted nonincestuous EPCs, but neighboring sons did not attempt to co
pulate with their mothers and, in some cases, chased away intruders. Female
receptivity was not influenced by whether the detained mate was visually p
resent or hidden behind cloth and did not increase with the persistence or
relative size of the extrapair male. Female receptivity increased with the
age difference between the extrapair male and the female's social mate, sug
gesting that females prefer older males as extrapair partners. This study s
uggests that costs of resistance are relatively unimportant in determining
female receptivity in western bluebirds, but identifies preferential recept
ivity to older males as a potential factor in the outcome of inter- and int
rasexual conflict over paternity.