In this study caring is shown to be a membership-bound activity to kin and
gender categories with strong moral connotations. "Being a daughter" or "be
ing a son" are good enough reasons for becoming a caregiver, more so for wo
men than for men. Caregivers were interviewed within the research project "
The role of women in family care of disabled elderly" conducted by the Soci
al and Economic Research Department of INRCA, Ancona, Italy. Transcripts of
the interviews were analyzed through a detailed discourse analysis within
an ethnomethodological framework. Interview data are treated as interaction
al encounters that occasion members to display relevant aspects of their id
entities and morally adequate images of being a caregiver. In the interview
interaction, interlocutors display an orientation towards the production o
f a moral order in which duty and responsibilities are allocated on the bas
is of gender distinction. Males are generally described as not being respon
sible for caring tasks, except for situations in which females are absent o
r sick, that is, for "serious reasons". Caregivers' perception of time dedi
cated to caring is pervasive. Most caregivers said it occupied all their ti
me, but gender differences were noticeable. Caring tasks are recognized as
gender specific practices, thus failing to carry out these tasks is morally
sanctionable when women are involved, but not so for men. Many caregivers
described caring for older relatives as an intense source of stress, involv
ing serious physical and psychological problems. The study on moral and ide
ntity issues related to caregiving highlights endangering constructions of
caring.