Conventional interpretations explain the prevalence of female-headed famili
es among nineteenth-century Irish immigrants in the United States as a sign
of social failure attributable to Irish men's high mortality rates and pro
pensity to desert their wives. This article argues that women's different m
aternal strategies and styles of mothering better explain ethnic patterns o
f female family headship. This exploration of the Irish pattern points to b
roader generalizations about all women's lives during the Gilded Age. This
study challenges two common assumptions about Victorian social realities: t
hat there was a simple and direct relationship between marital disruption a
nd female headship of families, and that female-headed families betokened s
ocial failure.