The article challenges conventional assumptions regarding the question of i
ncest survival within contemporary discourses. A textual analysis of Kathry
n Harrison's autobiographical novel tracing her consensual sexual relations
hip with her father is used to address the issue of failed or unresolved mo
urning as a prototypically 'modern' cultural phenomenon. Psychoanalytically
informed feminist literary criticism is used to explore the parallels betw
een the cultural construction of femininity and failed or postponed mournin
g in western historical and philosophical traditions. Following the work of
Juliana Schiesari and Kathleen Woodward, the article contends that melanch
olia is a gendered discourse that has historically privileged male theorist
s and film-makers, such as Barthes and Fassbinder. The article suggests tha
t contemporary women writers, such as Harrison, are engaged in a revisionar
y approach to the construction of loss within their writing. By situating t
hemselves at the heart of the contemporary family narrative, instead of the
'melancholic' margins, they are able to produce a counter-discourse that d
ispels the conventional dynamics of the traditional family romance. By usin
g the 'writing cure' to overcome ideological loss, the desiring daughter is
able to challenge misogynist constructions of femininity within contempora
ry literature.