This review article reveals that men are generally more influential than wo
men, although the gender difference depends on several moderators. Relative
to men, women are particularly less influential when using dominant forms
of communication, whereas the male advantage in influence is reduced in dom
ains that are traditionally associated with the female role and in group se
ttings in which more than one woman or girl is present. Mates in particular
resist influence by women and girls more than females do, especially when
influence agents employ highly competent styles of communication. Resistanc
e to competent women can be reduced, however, when women temper their compe
tence with displays of communality and warmth.