This study investigates the concept of shunning, which can be differentiate
d from other types of bullying through focusing on the victimizing process,
Shunning represents the collective exclusion of an individual by being ign
ored by their peers and it is the typical type of Ijime (bullying) in Japan
. I present two brief cases that describe experiences of classmates being s
hunned. I examine the cases and then introduce four different positions of
the victim's reaction to the experience of being shunned which correspond t
o four different identity statuses. Papadopoulos (1999) put forward the ide
a of 'storied community' through his clinical work with refugees, which pro
vides victims with coherent narratives and transitional space as a secure b
ase. This concept seems to have useful applicability in the phenomenon of s
hunning. However, the devastating dilemma for shunned victims in Japan is t
hat the most available storied community, which could offer them refuge, is
the one of 'suicide as revenge on the tormentors'. In this way, the choice
is impossible between finding refuge in that story or losing the sense of
identity. The implications for the clinician to relate to the victim of shu
nning are discussed, within the context of this approach.