In conspecific brood parasitism (CBP), a parasitic female takes advantage o
f the parental care performed by a host female by laying eggs in the nest o
f the host. The host female raises the offspring of the parasitic female as
well as her own. In species where local females are related, direct costs
for the host might be more than compensated for by gains in inclusive fitne
ss through increased reproduction of a related parasite, but the role of re
latedness in CBP is debated. This inclusive-fitness model of parasitism, st
ructured as a game between host and parasite, suggests that both females ca
n gain inclusive fitness and that host-parasite relatedness can therefore f
acilitate the evolution of CBP. Crucial assumptions are that there is kin d
iscrimination and a potential for host resistance to parasitism by unrelate
d females but close relatives are accepted. The cost of parasitism in terms
of reduced clutch size or offspring survival for the host must not be larg
e; otherwise, parasitism will reduce her inclusive fitness. Therefore, if t
hese costs are high, it does not benefit a host to accept a parasite, even
if the parasite is closely related. The secondary female may still have hig
her fitness from parasitism, but if the costs are high, she should parasiti
ze an unrelated host, not a relative. This requires that the reduction in p
arasite success that a host can cause by resistance is not too large; other
wise, it will be better for the secondary female to parasitize an accepting
related host or to nest solitarily. For these reasons, host-parasite relat
edness is most likely to occur in animals where costs of being parasitized
are low and host resistance can markedly reduce the success of an unrelated
parasite. When costs are higher, parasitism of unrelated hosts may be bett
er, and if host resistance strongly reduces parasite success, solitary bree
ding is preferable. In some cases, CBP is directly advantageous for the hos
t, and it may sometimes evolve in close connection with cooperative breedin
g, which is also considered in the model. Some but not all empirical result
s support these ideas, and more detailed studies of behavior, relatedness,
and reproduction of host and parasite are needed for critical tests.